MFRW Monthly Quote - October 2014 #MFRWauthor

"The secret of the creative life is often to feel at ease with your own embarrassment. We are paid to take risks, to look silly. Some people like racing car drivers are paid to take risks in a more concrete way. We are paid to take risks in an emotional way."        
-Paul Schraeder








Emerald
Emerald is an erotic fiction author whose short stories have been featured in anthologies published by Cleis Press, Mischief, and Logical-Lust. She serves as an assistant newsletter editor and Facebook group moderator for Marketing for Romance Writers (MFRW), and she selects and posts the monthly inspirational quote on the MFRW Marketing Blog. Her first solo books, If... Then: a collection of erotic romance stories and Safe: a collection of erotic stories, are out now from 1001 Nights Press. Find her online at her website, The Green Light District.

When Life Gives You Lemons, Write a Book @KittyB78 #MFRWauthor #amwriting

Life sometimes gets in the way for us writers. Doubly so for the marketing aspects. But, overcoming adversities is not just for authors, but for all humans. Each day we face new choices. Some will affect us for years to come, and will bring dire consequences. But, that is how we {like our characters} grow and become stronger, wiser people. We face our lives one challenge at a time. Sometimes we will make the wrong choice, but as long as we learn from our mistakes, we will grow stronger and work toward the goal of creating a better life for ourselves.

Inspiration can be so difficult to see during the hard times, but it's because you're emotionally involved at that point and unable to see clear and objectively. Take a step back and look at all the good you have in your life. Friends, lovers, family, children, the stark beauty of nature. Look at all the blessings in your life. Simply waking up in the morning is a blessing.

If you look for the negative, you will find negative. If you look for the positive, you will find the positive. Your outlook determines so much of what you discover in life. Is this not the same for each of our characters? Don't their decisions and the events of their pasts mold them into who they become? Don't they have the same choices to make?

These books are a huge help in understanding your characters strengths and weaknesses.
The Positive Trait Thesaurus Writer's Guide to Character Attributes
Negative Trait Thesaurus Writers Character eBook

Life will always knock you down. Learn to roll with the punches and get back up. Then go again.

About the Author
Catrina Barton is a real go-getter, who in 2006 turned her avid reading addiction since three, into a vigorous passion for writing. Especially New Adult Romances. Drawing on her knowledge as a Kung-Fu Instructor she makes her fight scenes both realistic and action packed.

When not indulging her fertile imagination to craft stories for your reading pleasures she enjoys hiking with her family and amateur belly dancing.

Proud member of many writing and marketing groups. An active participant at Critique Circle and several other crit groups. Her love of writing and her family rival her exhilaration from helping fellow writers. That's why she created her blog: Kitty's Inner Thoughts.

Fave Personal Quote
"An author cannot grow without both constructive criticism and encouragement."

Author's Social Media
Blog: Kitty's Inner Thoughts http://kittyb78.wordpress.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Kittyb78
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KittyB78
Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Catrina-Barton/e/B008BYQCYA
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6423796.Catrina_Barton
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/CatrinaBarton/
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/catrina-barton/49/682/165
Google +: https://plus.google.com/111888709855091430404/posts
Authors Database: http://www.authorsdb.com/authors-directory/152-catrina-barton
Biblio: http://bibliocrunch.com/user-profile/KittyB78/
Single email notification for my next release: http://authoralarms.com/Catrina_Barton

I'M IN A BLOG HOP!!! Now What? #MFRWAuthor

We all know a blog is an on line method of communicating with readers. So what's a blog HOP? A Blog Hop is a grouping of blogs, connected in some fashion. Generally hops continue over a period of two to three days, with a goal of increasing attention for all participants. MFRW has been fortunate to utilize a unique software for the bi monthly hops, which joins all the blogs in a simple to navigate progression. The weekly excerpt blogs connect via 'linky links' which keep a list of participants. Each blog then copies the links to connect back to the main page and the other blogs.

Sounds interesting? Think it might help spread the news about your writing? How can we best utilize this organized effort, and what can we as participants do to make the hop even more effective?

Woody Allen has been heard to say 90% of success is showing up, which certainly applies to writing, and even more to blog hops. You need to have your blog ready in time to go live along with the rest of the hop participants. Most blogs these days are shared through Facebook, Twitter, and Triberr. To get the maximum benefit from Triberr, you'll want to create unique titles. These titles can reflect the hop theme, such as "Endless Summer" or "Home For The Holidays" but should expand on the initial wording. You might use "Anthony's Endless Summer Memories" or "The Duke Goes Home for the Holidays." This way your title will be within theme but will stand out from the crowd plus you won't hit a Triberr traffic jam of too many to count "Endless Summer" or "MFRW Summer Blog" titles.
If there is a recommended Twitter identity, such as #MFRWAuthor, you should use it in your title. This identity flags your title on Twitter and guarantees greater exposure.

Once your blog publishes with a unique title including the Twitter flag, you can sit back and enjoy your success. Or can you?
A blog hop is a community effort. The more you put into the hop, the more you get out of it. Invest time in checking the other blogs in the hop, and in making supporting comments. Go out to Triberr or Twitter and give those other blogs more exposure; you know the other participants are doing the same for you.

When Monica's not helping with MFRW blog hops, trying to garden in the high desert, or playing with her dogs, she dons her super heroine costume as Mona Karel, Romance Writer. She often shares story information, recipes, and pictures on Mona's website